Mummy Trials

Aberdeenshire mum sharing stories and adventures with my three year old daughter Sophia!

Saturday, 22 April 2017

Things To Do - May 2017


A new month and even more activities needed to keep Sophia entertained! I've been looking around online and managed to create this little list of things happening in and around Aberdeen during May! If you know of an activity, run an activity or even attended one of the events on this list I would love to hear from you! Hopefully this helps some of you grown ups out there, I know how difficult it can be thinking of ways to keep the kids happy and it's also nice for us adults to do some socialising. 



NCT Sling Meet
Crown Terrace Methodist Church
3/5/17

Now personally I never tried baby wearing when Sophia was younger, before I had Sophia I never even knew this was a thing. I remember how popular it was amongst parents on baby groups/pages I was part of. The NCT sling meet starts at 10:00 and is on until 12:00, you have the opportunity to meet other parents which is always a plus, you can try slings and I believe you can even hire slings. Every parent I've known to attend a sling meet in and outside of Aberdeen has always had very positive things to say and found the meets very useful. 





Now I wasn't 100% sure about including this event as I know it's way past Sophia's bedtime, but saying that it may help some of you out who have older children or you might be huge Star Wars fans and want to do something different! This is a drive in cinema experience ( I love that more of these are happening around Aberdeen!) and according to the National Trust Scotland website the film begins at 19:30 although cars can appeared 45 minutes before the film is due to start. 



We are really looking forward to this one and it's bound to be a great family day out. Bruce no doubt will be bringing his motorbike along to Haddo House and we will be trailing behind in the car! We are keeping everything crossed that it's a lovely day! This is a free event but a donation would be help the organisers continue this event next year! You can also enjoy a walk around the grounds, let the kids play in the park and check out the delicious cafe! 



I feel like all I have done is give you film options but I am loving these outdoor cinema experiences. Why not relive the 80's and grab the chance to see E.T. in style! Again this is a later event so maybe better for older children, the film starts at 19:00 and finishes at 21:00.



Movies For Juniors
Cineworld
Saturday & Sunday mornings

A trip to the cinema can be super pricey, throw a child into the mix and it's not long before the sweet smell of popcorn has them crying out for a snack. Movies For Juniors is a great time to take your children to the cinema, my reservations with taking Sophia to the cinema is the thought of, "will I spend a fortune and she won't sit still or perhaps she won't be interested in the film.". Thankfully the super discounted prices starting from only £2 mean that if Sophia does decide she's not in the mood to sit still, we can quite easily leave and not have paid a small fortune. I believe the films change weekly so I recommend contacting your local Cineworld to find out what's on & times! 



I love the fact more places are holding sessions for children who may find the usual soft play experience too much to handle. Hoodles Play barn hold an event on the last Thursday of every month from 17:30-19:30. I can imagine it's a fantastic opportunity for your child to enjoy the Hoodles experience without it being overbearing. Mum's & Dads also have the opportunity to relax a little. Wouldn't it be amazing if more establishments had events like this? I would also love to know if you are aware of any similar events in and around Aberdeen! 


Messy Play

What child doesn't love some messy play!? Held in various locations on all different days and times I didn't want to list just one option. A quick look on google can help you find the best option for you and your little one. You can even try some messy play at home from painting to making your own slime, Pinterest is a gold mine for messy play ideas. Messy Play classes are a great way to get out & about and meet new people and tend to be fairly inexpensive!



Only 15 minutes from Aberdeen City Centre by car, Doonies Farm covers 134 acres from Nigg Bay to Cove.  Open 10:00-16:00 with last entry at 15:00. Doonies Farm is closed Monday & Tuesday expect on School Holidays and is a great day out. A family ticket which permits 2 adults and a maximum of three children is only £10, children under 2 go free  and you can even bring a picnic along for when you start to feel a bit peckish.  You will see a big mix of animals and now is the perfect time to visit, why not go and see if you can spot any of the new arrivals at Doonies Farm?



Introduce your child to the world of tennis! Suitable for ages 3-10, With smaller courts, nets and rackets and lower bouncing balls, LTA Mini Tennis offers the perfect introduction to the sport, with all the fun and energy of the real thing. There are four stages of LTA Mini Tennis; Tots, Red, Orange and Green, each with their own court size and type of ball. This tailored approach enables players to develop vital skills and techniques at an early age. You can take a look at the timetables and how to sign up here! 


Newburgh Beach

Why not come along to Newburgh and visit our beach! Nicknamed seal beach it's a quiet beach compared to Aberdeen. Only a 15/20 minute drive and you can take in the views of the colony of seals that like to rest at the mouth of the Ythan River. You could also take a short trip to the Forvie National Nature Reserve and stop for lunch at the Newburgh Inn. You could also venture along to Ellon and try out the new dessert parlour, Ice Dreams!



I am not affiliated with any of the events or companies mentioned above. These are my personal suggestions and I hope that some may come in useful!




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Wednesday, 19 April 2017

Doing it for me!






So recently I have been thinking about how my life has changed since I became a Mother. Care free selfish Sharon loved going out with friends, having random adventures and I absolutely loved pampering myself. After I had Sophia I was seriously motivated to get in shape, so much so that I ended up working in a gym helping other people do the same thing! Then I lost motivation after loosing nearly 6st and piled it all back on, stopped exercising, stopped caring and totally let myself go! As Sophia got older I found it much harder to find the energy to take care of myself. I was lucky that Sophia as a baby loved to sleep and was a very happy baby. Now that she is a toddler, she needs entertained and is a demanding diva. I'm actually more tired now than I was when I had a baby! The black circles under my eyes make that very clear.

Now here I am today, the fattest I've ever been in my life, with the lowest energy levels EVER, the crappiest skin, not caring how I dress and generally just feeling very "meh"! This could be completely unrealistic but I worked on a list of things I want to do for myself, I'm sure some of these will have a positive impact on family life too, so here we go!


  1. Improve my eating habits. This is a tough one, I am ridiculously fussy... It won't happen over night but I have hope!
  2. Cut out fizzy drinks. Goodbye Pepsi, Irn-Bru you beautiful orange glass of heaven we must part ways! Before I actually has this cool water bottle that totaled the amount of water I needed to achieve my ideal level of hydration... I need to become friends with that bottle again. 
  3. Ditch the chocolate. Especially chocolate covered raisins & Terry's chocolate oranges, oh my how their sales will drop!
  4. Fit into a size 10 clothes. I was quite possibly a size 10... when I was 10, I got down to a size 14 before which lets be fair, with today's clothing sizes being completely different in each store doesn't mean a whole lot! I tend to shop in Newlook... so lets say a Newlook size 10 for the sake of it. 
  5. Get more sleep. I'm positive I'm not the only parent with this issue, even when Sophia is asleep I find myself awake until 3am! Why? Because it's my time, quiet time, I can watch my trashy TV and not be disturbed. Then Sophia comes through for me at 7am and I feel so disgusting and regret staying awake... only to do it again the following night. 
  6.  Have more time for myself & Bruce. Date night, even just for a couple of hours at least once a month. Of course I won't turn down Grandparents offering over night babysitting. I miss wakening up of my own accord and just wondering around carelessly in the mornings. 
  7. Get a hobby! Don't ask me what! I honestly don't know. Child free Sharon loved to party... now I have no idea what I love. So if you have any suggestions let me know! I need your help! 
  8. Make more effort with my appearance. I am not saying I will be strolling around looking flawless all day, every day. I'm also comfortable enough to go makeup free, younger Sharon wouldn't even nip to the shop without a full face of makeup. Now & again it does cheer me up getting to play with my makeup.
  9. Do more things as a family. Does anyone else imagine doing all of these amazing activities but when it comes to the weekend you just want to chill? This is perfectly normal... I used to feel so guilty about this. I would see accounts on Instagram where families just look like they are out all of the time, doing all of these cool activities. Truth is, Sophia loves a nap... she gets this from me. Wish me luck with this one, I'm not sure Sophia will be convinced enough to give up her love of counting sheep! 
  10. Learn a new skill. Right now I'm leaning towards making bath bombs, I'm addicted to lush but in my head it would be sooooo cool to make my own. They could also help with my  goal of relaxation... self care crazy ideal I have in my head right now. I'm actually crazy for thinking I can relax with a toddler around aren't I!?

So in short I want to be a slim, water drinking, vegetable eating, well rested and well presented Mum who has an awesome new hobby and has enough energy to go on crazy family adventures and from time to time be awake enough to hold a conversation with Bruce. Who the hell do I think I am? Super Woman!? Who knows, I may actually achieve this once Sophia has flown the nest... Either way you are lucky enough to join me through this journey, expect highs, lows, failures and hopefully some success stories! If anyone is in the same boat, perhaps wanting to shift some lbs, figure out exactly when their wardrobe stopped being cool and rediscover the whole fashion thing again or maybe you want to try and learn something new then make sure you get in touch! I would love to hear from you!





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Monday, 17 April 2017

Toy Shopping





Spring is in the air and this means Sophia just constantly wants to be outside! It's still pretty cold in Aberdeenshire but that hasn't stopped me having a look at some deals online for outdoor toys! I had to share some of these with you! I soon got carried away and strayed from outdoor toys. There are loads of deals on toys at the moment. Hopefully some of these can maybe help you save some of your hard earned £££'s!













So there we have it, some of the bargains I found during an innocent snoop around online. I now have Sophia sat on my knee pointing at the blue Furby claiming she wants one! I may just have to get one and save it for her Birthday!



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Tuesday, 4 April 2017

Things to do in & around Aberdeen


It's holiday time in Aberdeen, this always stirs up mixed emotions for me. First I'm excited I get to spend lots of time with Sophia and then I panic! How the hell will I keep Sophia entertained!? She has all this energy and is constantly on the go. I decided to set up a list of activities to try and help you plan some fun things to do with your kiddies! 


Deeside Activity Park - Megga Fun Day - 08/04/2017

This Easter family event is the perfect family day out. It promises a day of fun with activities such as a climbing wall, bouncy castle, body zorbs, face painting and a huge Easter egg hunt. Complete with a BBQ for those rumbling tummies, tuck shop and candy floss. This event is to raise funds for the Aberdeenshire Geo caching Mega which will be coming to the area in 2019! For more information on the event you can click here!

Melting Medals Craft Workshop - The Gordon Highlanders Museum 11/04/2017

Described as being suitable for children ages 4-12 years old, booking is needed for this event but at a low cost of only £3 per child. Children will get to see and learn about some of the museums medals and get to design their very own medals using a mix of materials. There are two sessions, one runs from 11-12:30 and the second runs from 2:00-3:30. For more information you can visit The Gordon Highlanders Museum website. 

image from gordonhighlanders.com

Haddo House

If you haven't visited Haddo House before or maybe haven't been for a while then make sure you pay it a visit soon. This is one of our popular destinations, Sophia loves the park and the grounds themselves are fantastic for walking around. If you do want to see inside Haddo House make sure you visit their website and check what the latest opening hours are as these change depending on the season. You can also visit Mrs Smiths shop, grab yourself a drink, some cake, a sandwich and can even grab yourself a hot roll.

You could even take part in the Cadbury Egg hunt, This event can get super busy but it doesn't make it any less fun. Adults & Children love this egg hunt.  This runs from 14/04/2017-17/04/2017 between 11:00-16:00. All the details are available here!


Ranger guided children's walk: Pond dipping - Castle Fraser Garden & Estate - 12/04/2017

One thing I learnt working with children is that they LOVE pond dipping. Give them a net and the chance to find some creepy crawlies and they are entertained for a good while. The website recommends wellies, it's £5 per child and this event will be ran on two sessions. The first session is 10:30-12:30 and the second session is 13:30-15:30. Booking is essential and according to the website this event isn't suitable for pushchairs. However they haven't stated a recommended age group. For more information you can visit the website here!

Codonas

I know I have great memories of this place from when I was a child. From rides to indoor games, indoor and outdoor adventure golf, bowling and now the brand new Smugglers Tree Huts. I have only seen photos of this new attraction but it looks amazing. There are plenty places in and around Codonas to grab a bite to eat & something to drink. You could venture out onto the beach front or even head towards Fittie for a stroll around. For prices & to see what attractions are on offer please click here!

image from codonas.com


Linx Ice Arena

Ice Skating was on of my favourite things to do as a child. I loved it so much it was one of the rare activities I would venture out of my bed at a ridiculously early hour on a Saturday morning to do. If you would like to view the timetable please click here! (This timetable was correct at time of writing but is subject to change) They even run parent and toddler sessions on Tuesday & Thursday or if you child is extra keen to take up Ice Skating or perhaps even Ice Hockey as a hobby you could always contact the arena for more details on lessons and clubs.

image from www.sportaberdeen.co.uk


Aberdeen Science Centre

Known as Satrosphere to locals, children love this place. There are plenty of hands of activities for children to do, it seems to be entertaining for all ages. Younger children love being able to get stuck in where as slightly older children enjoy reading about the actual activities/experiments. I can go here with Sophia who is three and her older cousins, each of them enjoy it but for different reasons. They always have different events going on so I highly recommend checking out the website!

image from visitscotland.com



Charleton Fruit Farm

Found just one mile north of Montrose Charleton Fruit Farm has a lot to offer. I first visited here with my work, this included a group of at least 50 children and it was still fun! You can pick your own berries, visit two play zones which include a fortress, peddle go karts on a pretty big track, they even have a mini track for the smaller ones with smaller trikes and ride on toys. You can visit the coffee shop & gift shop. Visit here on a beautiful day and you won't want to leave. I'm pretty sure you can bring your own picnic along but the cafe also has light lunch options. To see the website please click here! This place is guaranteed to keep your children well entertained.

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